Cyber-bullying

Online bullying, and bullying in general really, are hard topics to discuss. We seem to believe if there are no tolerances, no excuses, and full punishment, we can take down the big bad monster called cyber-bullying. However, not one solution to this problem can encompass all scenarios and solve the problem. Each case of bullying should be treated individually, as each case is highly unique. Having an all encompassing rule/procedure for bullying will not be as effective as analyzing a customized solution for each case. After all, not bullies and victims are the same, so how can you justify using the same rules? 

I think a big issue with cyber-bullying is that it is bullying brought to the surface. Everything is out in the open, on records which people cannot hide from. Bullying has always existed, and these issues have existed for some time - bullying hasn't gotten worse and kids haven't gotten meaner. They've just taken advantage of social media. Now, instead of kids in a school hearing rumors the bullying isn't contained. EVERYONE can see bullying happening and it can spread online like a virus. Too many people have liked videos posted on youtube of a victim being bullied, beaten up, or worse. Because of this, teens may feel even more helpless than before. The bullying will follow them - as it did Amanda Todd, even though she changed schools. 

A huge part of the solution needs to be addressing the bully's issues as well as the victims. The victim is a victim, and should not be underestimated as anything less. However, a big reason they have become a victim most likely stems from the bully's insecurities and issues. Bullies should receive counseling - as a bigger problems could be the source of their actions. Needless to say, some form of punishment should still be executed as this is a serious issue in which actions need to be met with consequences. I don't think action being taken against bullying adds to the drama, but is rather a necessity to solve the problem. Parental involvement and teacher involvement doesn't seem to me like it could be harmful. If the right actions are taken to stop the bullying right away and make sure both the victim and bully receive help, I don't see how adult involvement could harm the situation.